Saturday, August 31, 2013
And the Mountains Wept
Monday, August 26, 2013
All Good Things Come to an End...for a month
Monday, July 29, 2013
A Perpetual Rage
Sunday, May 12, 2013
You Kick Like a Girl!
Friday, April 19, 2013
Sometimes the Best Thing a Teacher Can Do is Shut Up
“The teacher who is indeed wise does not bid you to enter the house of his wisdom but rather leads you to the threshold of your mind.” -Khalil Gibran
Sunday, March 31, 2013
When living abroad isn't as cool as Facebook makes it appear
Saturday, March 2, 2013
Capital City
I'd like to tell you of the many great sites of culture and society I pondered on my first trip to Erbil, but if I did I would be lying, and lying is not cool!
I went from one mall to a bigger mall, and then promptly got back on the bus at dusk and was whisked back to Sulaimani.
One of our lovely coworkers here at AUIS had arranged for a small fleet (two) of buses to take anyone who wanted to go to Erbil this weekend for a shopping trip.
While Erbil is not a huge city in terms of what an American might picture, it is more developed in terms of infrastructure and international business than Suli.
So I was journeying in hopes of reaching the renowned Carrefour...Carrefour, did you see what I said? I have an inexplicable love affair with this French-owned hypermarket. I witnessed its majesty from afar in Sevilla, I experienced its hypnotic wares in Cairo, and now it was my chance to revel in their goods in Kurdistan. It was not an opportunity to be passed by.
All in all, it was a successful trip. Things that are readily available at any and every store in the states can be down right impossible to find in Suli, but sometimes appear in Erbil. I picked up jars of salsa, knock-off Lucky Charms, goat cheese, sliced roast turkey, tortellini, cookie sheets, and some new all cotton bed sheets, all of which are scarce or non-existent most of the time where I live.
There is never a dull moment at the two story house of dreams. I felt very fancy ordering my lebnah and feta cheese with zatar in Arabic. Because Erbil has such a diverse population, with Kurds coming from Turkey, Syria, and Iran; and hospitality and retail workers coming from everywhere, many languages are understood and spoken. My Kurdish is still very basic, so it was a treat to order in Arabic and have the cheese guy perfectly understand me and not walk away with four kilos rather than the quarter kilo I actually wanted.
Over in their delightful seafood section, they had an open tank of live fish, just chillin' and minded their on business, until a friend and I walked over and proceeded to stare and talk about how they are killed. One apparently didn't like that because it attempted to jump out of the tank and attack us...The guy behind the seafood counter found our shrieks of horror quite funny.
Over all, my favorite part of the trip was the drive there. It was a cool and foggy morning, with an air of quiet dignity surrounding the mountains. It was very easy to picture the many peoples who have traversed this oft contended land.
Families were out for day long picnics, and the sky was dotted with children's kites. Tents were set up to shade mothers and aunts from the noon day sun that eventually peeked out. Many that I saw were wearing the traditional Kurdish garb that is still popular with both the older and younger generation.
I was able to witness more culture through those little glimpses from my bus window than I did all day, and no matter how fabulous Carrefour is, they can't compete with that.
The fog comes
on little cat feet.
It sits looking
over harbor and city
on silent haunches
and then moves on.
-Carl Sandburg
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Things are rarely what they appear to be
I don't know what they were up to in Grammar 1 last semester, but this new group of students are going to be doing some magical things; I can feel it in my teachery bones!
Spring semester is always a bit lighter in terms of numbers, as fewer new students enroll at this time of year. Instead of starting with 85 students like last semester, I began with 70. This is still a lot, but there will always be a few 'no-shows' and of course a few students always drop throughout the semester.
I received an email the other day telling me that a young lady in one of my classes would be taking a leave of absence. She had been attending every class, participating, and seemed very invested. I immediately feared that there was some type of personal or family issue that was going to prevent her from continuing.
Our community at AUIS is so very small and close knit, and most of us (the faculty and staff) are expats with a desire to live and work abroad. I often forget that I am in a different culture all together, and that what I see on a day to day basis and how I interact with people is not the cultural norm here.
It is still very common for women to get married quite young (by western standards) and to not seek higher education because of family responsibilities. And while Sulaimani has shown itself to be a safe and inviting place, I have students who are from Kirkuk, Baghdad, and other places close to or in Southern Iraq where the daily threat of violence is still a very, very real thing.
So when one of my students drops out suddenly, I often fear the worst.
I was eating lunch later that same day in the cafeteria, when I saw said student. She quickly came over to my table and asked to speak with me.
She proceeded to tell what the email had said, that she needed to take a leave of absence. "I have to go to Indonesia for training..."
Wait. What?
"Yes, I play Karate and my competition is this summer, and I need to train."
"That's amazing!" I said, and she proceeded to pull out her phone and show me a picture.
"Wait, is that a black belt?!" I exclaimed.
"Yes. I am the first female black belt in all of Iraq."
BOOM! Yeah, my mind was blown too. I looked at this petite young woman and thought she perfectly embodied 'never judging a book by its cover'.
So, she is off to train and compete and will hopefully be back in the fall to continue her studies in the APP, and then eventually on into the academic program.
I look forward to hearing about her adventures.
"It always seems impossible until it's done"
-Nelson Mandela
Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Shine! Make 'em Wonder What You Got.
One of my Kurdish students from Iran told me that people back in her city told her she “dreamed too big”…that what she wanted to accomplish in her life was crazy and that she did not live in reality. People laughed at her for wanting what many take as a simple fact of life. It broke my heart that someone so young should be told there are limits to what you can accomplish, limits to what someone should desire out of their own life.
I couldn't imagine being told as a teenager that what I wanted to do in the future was silly or impossible. That I should set my sights lower, on something more 'reasonable' for someone like me. I grew up in a culture that tells their children they can be the president one day if they want to. That all things are possible if you go after it.
One of her "too big" dreams was to attend AUIS; She just completed her first semester and will be enrolling in IT classes in the fall. I’d say she’s on her way to showing those doubters what drive, direction, and the unshakable belief in one's self can do.
“A lot of people have gone further than they thought they could because someone else thought they could.” –-Unknown
Thursday, January 31, 2013
She Taught Me Good!
Overall, it was a very rewarding semester and I genuinely hope that some of my students left my classroom no longer fearing grammar. I am aware that most people despise it, so if they left with only a mild distaste for the subject matter, I'll take it as a success and move on to tweak and improve where I can for next semester.
A week of fun (at least I hope fun and not riots) in Cairo awaits and I'll shall leave you with yet another awkward (awesome?) exchange I had with a student this semester.
This student approached my desk during a group assignment to eventually ask me about 'burps' via farting....the conversation went like this:
Student: Hi teacher...aaah Ok, you know the air down there?... (motions behind him while pointing down)
Me: the..air...down there???
Student: Yeah, the air down there... (whispering) it's called farts...
Me: Are you really asking me about farts in the middle of an exercise?
Student: No disrespect...aah, ok?
Me: oooookay...what would you like to know?
Student: Well...the air up here (motions to throat)..what's called?
Me: Burp...That's a burp...you can also use that as a verb...
Student: Oh. Okay! Thank you teacher!
Just to be clear, the assignment they were working on involved neither of those bodily functions.
I will miss my level 2's dearly, and wish their level 3 teachers lots of luck!
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
"You look like Adele!" and other strange things my students say
I Just want to ask you about the Home work sheet that you gave it to us... which verb should we use?
Me: MEER!!! There were two, I wrote them on the board!!! I want you to call a friend and ask them. If you still can't find out what they are, email me back and I'll tell you...you've got to write down what I put on the board!
Meer: I'm really really sorry.. I don't have any phone number of my friend.. I was sharing work sheet.. I didn't know !
Can you tell me? Please!!
Me: To decline and to decrease. They better be the best verb charts I've ever seen!! :D
Meer: Ohhh, thank you so so so much!!!.. I don't know how much I love you!! :) , trust me it's NOT (MASTAW) :D..
Thank you !
Me: If you don't know how much you love me, there is a problem with your memory :D The phrase should have the pronoun you as the subject :D And you can show your love by doing your homework and getting an A in my class!
Meer: Ow My God !!! I did a huge mistake... I meant (You don't know how much I love you) .. :D
Good Night :)
Friday, November 9, 2012
Teaching in Kurdish Iraq
My students come from different parts of Iraq and Iran, and are eager to begin their academic studies in IT, engineering, mathematics, etc. Our program runs on trimesters, so I only have 12 instructional weeks to move my students to the next level. We will be exhausted my February, but InshAllah, we will all have learned a great deal.
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Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Iraqi Kurdistan Resident Here!
Ok, it’s tea and Baklava time, so I’ll leave you with a few pictures I’ve taken so far :)
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
Here and Now
If God gives me 60 more years, what kind of lens will I see my former self through?
These adventures to come...I pray they shape me into a woman of faith and courage.
May God allow my doubts to move me to action; may my quandries lead to wisdom, my fear to love.
May my gifts and energy not be wasted on worrying about 'what if's' and 'what could have been'.
May I look back, whether it be tomorrow or many years from now, and know that I have tread my own path and all is as it should be.
I'm finishing up my final week of classes at VCU and preparing myself for a new university, in a new town, in a new country. I will call Kurdistan (Northern Iraq) my home for at least a year, and I am looking forward to the many adventures/challenges I will face. I am excited in knowing that I will continue to grow as an educator, and am looking forward to learning from a new group of students!
I head out in the beginning of October, with a quick stop in Istanbul. Stay tuned for lots o' pictures and sarcastic ramblings!
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Update, Jealous!?
Friday, September 17, 2010
The Beginning (Again)
That's right folks, school has started again and I am back in Cairo. Classes actually began on the 5th, but seeing as I just got internet at my apartment, the blogging had to wait.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
The 2 Post Semester
-Life in the apartment in Maadi has been quiet and absolutely lovely
-I began a Beth Moore Bible Study with some women from a local church and another with a nice group of people from AUC and other areas of Cairo
-I've continued teaching EFL through the Lamb Center on Tuesday nights
-Lucy and I journeyed to 3 major cities in Spain for spring break
-I got to see a bit of Upper Egypt and some ancient temples in Aswan and Abu Simbel
-I've met more wonderful people (sometimes on the bus to school!)
I've decided to stay and finish the program here, so I've signed up for classes in September. I'll be moving, not sure where yet, but I'm looking forward to the coming adventures!
Saturday, February 6, 2010
A Stroll Through Old Cairo
Yesterday, I travelled on the metro, through downtown, past the sea of swirly-twirly gum drops, and arrived in Old Cairo. My friends Sherif and Karim invited me along on a tour of what is also referred to as Islamic Cairo and we walked and walked and then walked around some more!
We started out in Khan al Khalili, the famous marketplace, and made our way to the original walls of Cairo. We saw mosques, theatres, grain houses, and cisterns. The Al Azhar mosque was quite large and very beautiful. Since it was Friday, we had to wait a bit to enter until the afternoon prayer had concluded.
We finished our tour at one of the doors to the city, aptly named Bab Zuela (Bab means door in Arabic, don’t ask me what Zuela means). We climbed to the top of the walls surrounding the entrance and were treated to a magnificent panorama of the city. The next call to prayer sounded while were were up there and the attached video shows what I saw and heard from that vantage point.
We also decided it was a grand idea to climb the tiny, narrow staircase of the minaret tower to get an even higher view. I’ll admit there were times when I thought that the really old tower would collapse on me and I’d be stuck forever, but we soldiered on and made it out unscathed, alhamdullilah!
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Back to School
Classes began on the 31st. Our department was then informed that the first week of classes were cancelled so the MA TEFL students (that’s me) could attend the Nile TESOL conference being held downtown. So here I sit on a Thursday, making spicy tomato chicken soup and updating the blog, rather than taking the 40 minute bus ride to campus for some “edu-ma-cation”.
This semester should be action-packed and I’m super excited! I’m taking 3 courses, Discourse Analysis, Grammar, and Second-Language Acquisition. Only one class a day and none on Tuesday, which isn’t too shabby. I’d promise that I’d update more, but I don’t want to be a liar =)
Side note: Yes, those are some awesome, ancient pyramids in the background of the picture.
Friday, November 20, 2009
City Center and Christmas Lights: The best things since sliced aish!
Thursday is the new Friday in Cairo, and what does one do on a weekend evening, you might ask? If you’re me, you go to the Carrefour hypermarket to purchase a plethora of Christmas decorations.
City Center in New Maadi is a shiny, new mall built around an all-inclusive supermarket. It’s a french chain, so its pronounced carfoor, but if you’re me you regularly butcher it and end up telling everyone you’re going to kara-four or car-four. What can I say? I took Spanish.
Lucy, Ben, Henry, and I hailed a city cab, and by hailed I mean Lucy called 2 hours ahead of time so they would know to drive into the desert to come and get us.
I was on a mission, and upon arrival we immediately wrangled a ginormous cart from the corral and I proceeded to the center of the store where I had spotted the decorations last week, nearly avoiding crippling small children with my cart-driving skills on the way.
Seeing the crazed look in my eye, my friends eventually scattered and there was nothing left to stand between me and bucketfuls of tiny, deranged Santa Claus figurines, silver pine cones, and enough Christmas lights to tastefully dress the Pyramids of Giza.
I grabbed a medium-sized faux tree for the coffee table in my apartment and added it to the growing assortment of baubbles and trinkets in my basket. Fake snow, check. Garland, check. Santa wall hangings, double check. I forgot about a tree skirt and had to make due with some fabric I had picked up in Tanzania in 1998. I knew I brought it for a reason!
Navigating my way to the checkout counter, multiple children pulled on their mom’s skirts and exclaimed on the splendor of my decorating choices.
Getting a taxi back to campus was easier, and in a fit of joy (most likely induced by the high levels of lead in the decorations) Lucy and I decided to sing every Christmas carol we knew. I gave the driver an extra 5 pounds for putting up with me, but that probably wasn’t enough.
So here I sit now, with my little nook in Egypt all jazzed up, and enough hot cocoa mix to supply the entire women’s side of the dormitories. Next order of business...Christmas party!






